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Maria Anna from Greece
In the Netherlands since
2021 / 2022
Country of origin
Greece
Work
PhD candidate at Wageningen University & Research and Ghent University
Favorite word
‘Gezellig’
Favorite snack
Tompouce
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Without expectations, Maria Anna came to the Netherlands. She surrounds herself with people from different countries. Sharing her own culture with others helped her feel at home in the Netherlands.
Why did you choose to come to the Netherlands?
I decided to come to the Netherlands because I wanted to broaden my horizons in terms of my education. I also looked at options to travel and study/stay in other countries as well, but the option of the Netherlands during COVID time seemed more appealing.
Did you suffer from culture shock?
Of course, there are many differences between my homeland and the Netherlands. Some of them can be found below in this list:
- Where I come from, we usually have lunch after 3 p.m. and usually the food is cooked the same day. Dinner is also served later at 9 p.m. and not at 5 p.m., as usual in the Netherlands. There is no option to have a sandwich for lunch, however, we usually prefer to eat a sandwich earlier than our lunch at 10 a.m.
- When we use the bus in Greece, we usually don’t thank the bus driver. Here I see a lot of people saying “thanks!” before getting out. I think this is a very nice custom of Dutch culture. It should also be mentioned that the punctuality of transportation is unparalleled and amazing in this country!
- The Dutch generally prefer to be direct, but I do feel that sometimes they do not take into account the feelings of their interlocutor. More and more I see people from southern Europe conveying the same message in a different way, just with different wording, and still keeping the connection with their discussant intact. Perhaps there is room for improvement in this area!
- The Dutch really love their bikes! I was amazed that they cycled everywhere with me, even to weddings! In Greece, and especially in downtown Athens, cycling can make you limp through heavy traffic!
- The health care system is different and it can seem confusing to an expat. Going directly to a doctor is not an option here. In Greece, going directly to the doctor is something that can be done the same day, without requiring a referral from a general practitioner.
- King’s Day! That’s another cultural difference. In my country, we don’t have a similar celebration. But Dutch people love this day, and there are music venues in every city! It’s a happy and festive day for everyone!
- Ticks everywhere! In NL, you can receive an invoice for payment after a party. In Greece, if you are invited to a party, usually everything is covered by the owner of the party (otherwise you know from the beginning that there is a payment to be made).
- Conversations about mental health! Here I feel that taking care of your mental health is something that is promoted and supported by a large majority of people. I am very happy with this approach on this issue, and I hope that Greece will be similarly open on this issue in the future.
”I would suggest that you be open to making
both international and Dutch friends,
and don’t just stick to your compatriots.”
Are there any differences from the work you’ve done in other countries and here?
- If you work extra hours in the Netherlands, you get paid for them.
- Only 8 hours of work is possible here. You are not expected to perform your work beyond these hours.
Before you came to the Netherlands, you may have had ideas about what your life would be like here. Did Holland meet your expectations?
Frankly, I had no expectations; I prefer to discover things for myself. So I can’t make a comparison, unfortunately.
How does your partner experience life in the Netherlands?
My partner is Dutch, so I think he experiences culture shock in our relationship.
What have you worked on (or are still working on) to feel at home here?
- Meeting people from my own country made me feel at home.
- Celebrating our usual festivals also helped me feel at home.
- As a member of the Wageningsch Vrouwenkoor, I feel at home. In this choir, women from different countries of the world come together and we sing in our native language. Through this initiative, I also feel connected to other cultures.
- Discussing my culture with friends from different countries and my colleagues made me feel at home.
- Planting a basil plant and an oregano plant made me feel at home. My family loves these types of plants/herbs.
- Offering homemade Greek food to non-Greek friends made me feel at home.
The Netherlands has a housing crisis. Was it difficult to find a house?
It was indeed difficult, but the platforms offered by the university are extremely helpful, in my opinion!!! So I found my accommodation through them.
With everything you know now, would you choose Holland again?
Maybe I would.
Do you have any tips or advice for others going to work in the Netherlands?
Be flexible and open to the culture of others. If you find something inappropriate, be polite and say so, of course. I would suggest that you be open to making both international and Dutch friends, and don’t just stick to your compatriots.
In closing, can you share with us a few “words of wisdom” in Greek?
“Δεν ελπίζω τίποτα. Δεν φοβάμαι τίποτα. Είμαι λέφτερος.”
Written by Nikos Kazantzakis a Greek writer.
It means ”I hope for nothing. I fear nothing. I am free.”
Maria Anna Antonovardaki