De ervaring van…
Shokouh, Boardmember at WCFV, from Iran
Job title
Consultant
Working at
Roland Berger
Favorite snack
Kroket
Country of origin
Iran
In the Netherlands since
2012
Favorite Dutch words
• Gezellig — it captures a unique and warm feeling that’s hard to translate but so present in Dutch life.
• Geweldig — such an expressive and positive word that makes everything sound more enthusiastic!
Deel
Coming from Iran, having lived in Malaysia, and now calling the Netherlands home for over a decade, Shokouh has experienced a rich tapestry of cultures. This diverse background fuels her deep commitment to the international community here, making her a highly engaged board member of Welcome Center Food Valley. She openly shares her ‘gezellige’ experiences, the struggles and challenges she encountered along the way, and offers valuable tips for others navigating life in their new home.
General Experience
Can you tell us about your background and what brought you to the Netherlands?
I’m originally from Teheran and have an academic background in environmental engineering and technology. I moved to the Netherlands to pursue a PhD at Wageningen University & Research. The Dutch expertise in sustainability and water management drew me in, and I saw this as a great place to grow both professionally and personally.
What were your expectations of the Netherlands, and have they been met?
I expected a country that was organized, progressive, and open-minded — and I would say those expectations have mostly been met. I’ve been impressed by how efficiently things work here, and how much importance is placed on quality of life and work-life balance.
What did you find most surprising when you moved here?
The biking culture! I knew about it but experiencing it every day was a different thing. It’s amazing how people of all ages use bikes for everything — in all weather. Also, I was surprised by the Dutch directness in communication. It took some adjustment but now I really value the honesty.
Have you lived in other countries besides the Netherlands? Did you notice any cultural differences?
Yes, I lived in Malaysia for several years — in Johor Bahru and Kuala Lumpur. The cultural environment there was more community-oriented, and social interactions were more indirect and formal compared to the Netherlands. The Dutch culture is much more individualistic and direct, which was quite a contrast at first. I also noticed the different pace of life — things here are more structured and planned, while in Malaysia they felt more spontaneous.
“از تو حرکت، از خدا برکت”
“You take the step, and God brings the blessing“
Work and Career
How have you experienced Dutch work culture? Were there things you had to adapt to?
I really appreciate the emphasis on work-life balance and the flat hierarchies. It’s normal to have open discussions with managers, which was quite different from what I was used to. The communication style is direct, which can feel blunt at first but is very efficient.
In your opinion, what are the biggest differences between working in the Netherlands and in your home country?
In Iran, work environments are often more formal and hierarchical. In the Netherlands, it’s common for everyone to be involved in decision-making, and there’s a strong emphasis on team input. Also, Dutch workplaces often stop meetings on time — punctuality is real!
How did you build your professional network here? Do you have any tips for newcomers?
I started by connecting with people through university, conferences, and LinkedIn. Later, I joined professional associations and meetups. My advice: don’t wait for people to approach you. Reach out, ask questions, and stay curious — people are usually open and helpful.
Integration and Social Life
How did you meet new people and build a social life in the Netherlands?
University was my first gateway, but later I made connections through volunteering, local events, and hobbies. Joining expat groups, Dutch classes, and even talking to neighbours helped me feel more integrated.
What were the biggest challenges in learning Dutch? Do you have any tips for others?
The grammar and sentence structure were quite different from Persian, so it felt overwhelming at first. My tip: start using Dutch in daily life, even if it’s just small phrases. People appreciate the effort, and it really helps break the ice.
Are there specific places or communities you would recommend to other expats?
Yes, the Welcome Centre Food Valley is a great place to start. In general, cities like Wageningen and Utrecht have vibrant international communities. I also recommend checking out local language cafés, hobby groups, and online platforms like Meetup and Facebook groups for expats.
Practical Matters
What practical matters did you find challenging when you first arrived in the Netherlands?
Finding housing was the most challenging — it’s competitive and fast-moving. Understanding the healthcare system also took time, especially the role of the general practitioner (Huisarts) as the first point of contact for everything. Setting up things like DigiD and health insurance were new experiences but manageable with guidance.
What is one tip you would give to someone who has just moved to the Netherlands?
Take your time to understand how things work — from housing rules to biking etiquette! And don’t be afraid to ask for help. Dutch people may seem reserved at first, but they are very helpful and will often go out of their way if you ask clearly and kindly.
Future
Do you see yourself staying here long-term? Why or why not?
I’m open to possibilities. The Netherlands has become a second home for me, and I appreciate the stability and quality of life here. That said, I’m also curious about new experiences and could imagine living in another country in the future if the right opportunity comes along.
What do you wish you had known before moving to the Netherlands?
I wish I had known how important it is to plan for housing and to get used to biking in the rain! I also would’ve liked to understand the role of the municipality and systems like DigiD and BSN early on — they’re essential for navigating daily life.
Lastly
Could you share a few words of wisdom/a joke/a saying/other advice in Persian?
Of course! Here’s a favorite Persian saying that I carry with me:
“از تو حرکت، از خدا برکت“
“You take the step, and God brings the blessing.”
It’s a reminder to take initiative and have faith in the journey, which really resonates with the expat experience.
Shokouh Rahsepar
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